Category Archives: Knee Deep in the Hooah!

Articles on life as a Blue Star Mother (times 2) and former Army wife.

A Soldier’s Mom

Writ­ten in 2007 with much love and affec­tion. This came to my heart and mind as my son fought in the surge in Baqubah Iraq and buried more friends in a year than any young man ought to. The Lord has been faith­ful and good. My son’s heart has been bro­ken, but not hard­ened. That has

Basic Compassion Training (BCT) 101

A few weeks ago I wrote an entry con­cern­ing moth­ers and deploy­ment. Today I want to talk about a related topic  —  a topic that is related because it impacts the dif­fi­culty of deploy­ment for fam­i­lies. Some of the mil­i­tary moms that I have had the immense plea­sure of know­ing and chat­ting with are under­ground. Yes. I have heard them tell one another

Thoughts On Seeing The Elephant

When a sol­dier has his first brush with close com­bat it has been, in times past, described as “see­ing the ele­phant.” I heard about this phrase sev­eral months back, and I have read a lit­tle bit about it. I sim­ply can not stom­ach too much read­ing about real com­bat scenes. When you are the mother of a sol­dier, sud­denly every com­bat

Measuring Out My Life With Coffee Spoons

For I have known them all already, known them all:— Have known the evenings, morn­ings, after­noons, I have mea­sured out my life with cof­fee spoons. –The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock, T.S. Elliot When Mr. Hooah fled for a nice retreat to Uncle Benning’s camp for way­ward hus­bands, I joined a local gym so that I could work on get­ting

Chestnuts Roasting Over Mortar Fire

Why in the world this par­tic­u­lar title for a blog would come to me in my sleep is beyond me. Hon­estly though, I had a dream the other night that I was blog­ging and one of my blog entry titles was “Chest­nuts Roast­ing Over Mor­tar Fire” and it was on the topic of try­ing to bring the home front

Who me? Worry?

I am an inher­ent wor­rier. I come from a long line of wor­ri­ers. We worry that we worry too much. I have spent the greater half of my mid­dle adult­hood fight­ing back the temp­ta­tion of worry. Worry, fret and anx­i­ety can eas­ily become a way of life, and what they leave in their path is usu­ally not pro­duc­tive, help­ful